My girls friend is really pissed off and tell she has no interest ? please tell me how to get her back ?

Maybe write her letter explaining how you feel. But you need to look at yourself and see if you are willing to change. Those small things are the things that end relationships and in all honesty it sounds like you ahve lost her for good. I mean...this is based off of just your side. Are ya'll married or just dating? If you are still living in different places, the chances are you have lost buddy. Find out if she is dating someone else first. If she is...tough cookie. If she isn't, there may be hope.