How can I have good self image?

Girl you are having a bad image about you probably because did not have a life without him. people break up all the time, and all relationships eventually will come to an end. A relationship may end because of death, or because it is time to move on, etc. Anyway, you just have to believe in yourself. In psych, we say that if you want to have confidence in yourself, then pretend it. because eventually you will start to believe it. Really, it always work. Also too when you start thinking positve about yourself, then you are releasing positive energy around you. So therefore that energy affects your mind, and your body, etc. I just think that he was a loser. why would he date your friend, and what kind of friend did you have? you do not need anyone of them. Just move on. Get ,yourself involved in positive activities, such as exercising, eating healthy, going out with good loving friends, and dont forget to spend quality time with your family. I know that these advice sound so boring but it works. If you really want to get revenge the best revenge for yourself and for you is to be better than you were when you were with him. really. It does not matter how much superficial gains you get in society such as being a lawyer. These things are great of course, but you have worked so hard to make good grades in school. now it is time for you to even work more hard with your inner feelings, etc. Take care of you, and stop thinking about him, really. You do need to look at yourself and ask yourself why did you pick a friend and a boyfriend who were such losers. Because if you have not change the kind of attraction you have for people then you will get in this situation again. yes we can not control what people to do us, but at the same time, I am sure that your boyfriend was not so different then the ones you dated in the past as well. I will say that you are young and the older you get the happier you become because you find out who you are. If you make the right decisions then you will have a better life as you age, because you will feel more comfortable in your skin. Anyway good luck girl. And do something nice for you tonight. Go skating or cycling tonight. ok. Good luck again.